Amy and Clara both kissed the Doctor only shortly after knowing him. I don’t remember which episode Amy kissed the Doctor…but it was early in season five, wasn’t it? And she was quite forceful about it, too, so that was uncomfortable. Clara also was forceful about kissing (although happily the Doctor didn’t seem too repelled this time around).
Ugh. I much fear I’m becoming a person who deserves to be hated, because I have these limited world views; namely, being annoyed with Clara for suddenly kissing the Doctor for no discernible reason (sure, he’s cute and funny and charming and interesting, but—a date first, maybe?). I feel glad that I can say I was annoyed with Amy because she was engaged (it took me a long time to warm up to her after that…I’m a moralistic person).
I guess everyone will say to just not force my morals on anyone else. Well, I don’t. But what happens when something I don’t like is around me? Do I leave, rudely? Stop contact with that person? That seems…childish. Shouldn’t I just suck it up and resign myself to the idea that generally what I think is bad is not bad? I can’t really do that, though. (And don’t even bring up drugs or underage drinking…that’s a whole ’nother can of worms.)
I sometimes lament quietly to myself why I appear to have the morals of someone from the 1950s when it comes to relationships. You see, it’s because I know that I’m the one in the wrong.
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Which I think is different than objecting to a similar situation in the real world. And even then, I think it's okay to have your preferences when it comes to relationships. So long as you don't try to force them onto other people, and you don't seem like the type to do that.
Anybody who tells you that your ideal relationship is "outdated" or "wrong" is a sort of a jerkass, if you ask me.
Kissing someone out of NOWHERE is sort of rude and a total invasion of someone's personal space anyways.